It’s been a while since I last posted. The last 18 months have been quite hectic. Mum had a fall and a series of recurring infections in early 2017 and was quite poorly. Hospital investigations revealed Bile Duct cancer which was inoperable and given her age and general health chemotherapy / radiotherapy were also not advised.
They managed to get her stabilised and she was returned home in early June 2017, but only lasted 2 weeks before another fall and infection saw her back in hospital. At end of July prognosis was not good, we were told 2 to 3 months (4 at best) was the medical forecast. She was then in Ward 5 at Queen Margaret Hospital, and we had her transferred to the long term stay ward (Ward 7) at Queen Margaret.
The care of the nursing staff was excellent, so much so, that by end Nov 2017, she was recovering so well, they were talking of transferring her to either home or nursing care.
However in early Oct 2017, my Dad, who was in a care home with dementia, suddenly took unwell and after 5 days in a comatose state he quietly passed away on Oct 5th. Organising Dad’s funeral and dealing with his estate took up a lot of my time at the end of last year.
At the end of October, we lost our family pet Tipsy, who was 18 years old (a good age for a cat).
In December we kicked off the process of getting my mum moved into a nursing home with a 4 week trial at Abbotsford in Cowdenbeath. She saw Christmas in the home and in January decided that she would be happy to remain there so she became a permanent resident early in 2018.
She had her 89th birthday there on 23rd Feb. Not bad for someone who wasn’t expected to see out 2017. Although now immobile, she is still alert and quite healthy, given her age and condition.
The house was quite empty after Tipsy’s demise so on Hogmanay we got two kittens (Deanyo and Mizza) who are settling in well and keeping us on our toes. They are now 6 months old and very couthy as we say in Scotland.
Now that things have kind of settled down a bit I hope to continue blogging of my journeys and other musings during 2018.